As a child of the 60’s, I first started thinking about the phrase, “The Meaning of Life” sometime before I became a huge fan of Monty Python’s Flying Circus in the early 1970s. So, you can imagine how excited and interested I was when I saw that the troupe had released their fifth film on this very subject: My hope was that I was going to be informed, educated and entertained through humour, chaos and the absurd, by people who made me laugh uncontrollably (one of my favourite things in life). Sadly, I only got one of the above from this excellent film and came away faintly nauseous from all the laughing and the copious amount of blood and viscera on show.
As a curious person, this subject came back to me at various times as I finished school, got my degree, my first and subsequent jobs, found the love of my life, travelled, settled down, my wife gave birth to our two fabulous and healthy children and I flowed through my career.
Yet, despite a certain sense of maturing as an individual, building resilience, happiness and what I think of as “Wealth” (health, sense of wellbeing, contribution to family and friends, enough money etc.) all of those magical things still left me wondering about this mystical wisdom, this key to the universe, spirituality and sense of understanding what for, and why we are here on this mortal coil.
And as time moved on and my corporate career came to a natural end, I embarked on my Executive Coach training, thinking that it would be fun, challenging, valuable and maybe, just maybe, would offer me an insight into what for me was this nebulous concept of The Meaning of Life …
And while the process of becoming an accredited coach has and continues to offer me deep personal insights into how I behave and the impact I have on others and myself and so much more, it was in the area of Physical Science when I heard about the nature of “Entropy” that things started to become much clearer for me.
Entropy, if you don’t already know, can be defined as the transfer of energy from hot bodies of matter to cold ones … or in short, that Energy, however it is derived, be it totally naturally, e.g. the Sun, or via man made means – including life – will eventually dissipate and come to a halt.
This then got me thinking about the life energy we are born with, and what we can reasonably expect from our time on earth, the opportunities we find for ourselves, the boosts and barriers we are given by our upbringing, parents, key people and relatives, and the power we have to make choices that can steer our presence in this world. Add to these, the impact we make, the love and happiness we can engender and how continuing personal growth is a goal worth seeking … as no one knows it all … and all this while our Entropy unwinds …
So, when I started to put together the concept of Entropy with my developing sense of self and self-awareness, emotional intelligence and understanding of the basics of psychology, I had a bit of a “light bulb” moment on this Meaning of Life question …
Maybe, just maybe, I was considering the question incorrectly in the first place....
Is it in fact better to think about The Meaning of Me in this Life?
My answer, and the more I challenge this I cannot get away from it, is Yes, it is all about how I conduct myself, the choices I make, how I commit to growing, getting better at what I do, helping myself and others with kindness, patience, love and support … all armed with the insights afforded to me by my life and its lessons to date, along with my coach training and support from the delightful and giving individuals I have met along the way.
And yes, of course, this development is available to everyone who opens themselves up to the universal wealth that is self-development, self-questioning and commitment to growth for them and for the general benefit. For one thing is sure: we cannot escape the reality of Entropy, and it is our duty to decide on our paths in this World and what we want to achieve. That is our Power.
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